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I hate this question
Last month, Gary and I had the opportunity to share our story on Brad Stine’s podcast, where we talked about God's redemption, waiting for the right person, and what it means to trust Him with our romantic dreams. One key topic we addressed was a question I often get—and honestly, hate: “Is there only one person out there for everyone?”
This question feels limiting, as if it shrinks God down and ignores His all-knowing nature. Scripture tells us that God already knows our choices and has a good plan in place no matter what (Psalm 139:16, Romans 8:28–29, Jeremiah 29:11). Yes, we have free will, but God's sovereignty still covers it all.
We can choose relationships based on our own logic, or we can follow God's leading—faithfully choosing “the one” He has for us. Both paths may lead to good, but only one is powered by faith and designed to thrill God’s heart.
The real question isn’t about soulmates. It’s this: Do I really want what God wants? That’s the fork in the road between just getting what you want… and stepping into a faith-filled, purpose-driven love story.
When waiting feels like a Lifetime…
Have you ever felt like you’ve been waiting a lifetime? Waiting with God is a vital part of a believer's life. Waiting is the way into both divine living and divine timing. Why waiting? What is it about waiting that makes it so important for us and for God?
Fitting One Another
For many, the purposes and dreams planted inside you are from the Divine. These dreams and purposes will find their greatest impact when you are united with the right person in matrimony. What is our definition of the “right person”? The right person is the one God reveals. Your earthly purpose will not fit with just anyone.
Marry for Purpose & watch the fireworks
"Have you ever thought how long the glory of a single firework lasts in our memory? Only until the next one goes off, am I right? After a few seconds of being stunned the glory passes in anticipation of the next one to come. I see that same behavior in us when the pursuit of happily ever after is something we make happen for ourselves. We will celebrate for only a few seconds then the next idea that pops up gets all our attention."
When Love Runs Wild
“The initial excitement of wedded bliss can be overwhelming. But as life settles in, the thrill of a new experience lessens. If a husband or wife attempts to live their lives without purpose, something beyond and bigger than themselves…”