“The enemy is nervous about holy matrimonies…” —Bill Johnson 2014
We know this generation is not afraid of commitment, they’re afraid of making a wrong choice and we have an answer for that: Romantic Reformation
We believe romantic love is given as a gift, not found. Love is not discovered by luck, algorithms, or chemistry. It is prepared beforehand and discovered by obedience, discernment, and time with God. God doesn’t rush love. He prepares it to be a gift given in His time.
⸻
We believe God is a Matchmaker. Not symbolically. Not metaphorically. Biblically. God brings together what He has first makes faith filled, submitted, and aligned. He is not guessing. He is not experimenting. He joins people with purpose—not just preference. Genesis 2:18-23, 24-27, the book of Ruth
⸻
We believe desire is good, but dangerous when undisciplined. Desire was never meant to lead. It was meant to be submitted to Him and then ordered by Him. When desire outruns faith, people get hurt and call it growth. We don’t shame desire. We consecrate it. Song of Songs 2:7, 3:5, 8:4, Eccl 3:1
⸻
We believe waiting is strength, not delay. Waiting is not God withholding love. It is God protecting it. Singleness is not a punishment. It is a season of securing an undivided devotion to Christ. Nothing beautiful ane solid is rushed. Nothing sacred is sloppy. Pslam 27:14, Isaiah 40:31, Romans 8:22-29
⸻
We believe faith costs something—and that’s the point. God’s way will cost: comfort, approval, timing, and control. But it will never cost life. Anything that asks you to stive to feel loved is not love. Galatians 2:20, Ephesians 3:17-19, Hebrews 11: 1-6
⸻
We believe romance is meant to create life, not consume it. We are unapologetically pro-life in our vision of love. We believe according to John 1:3 Life begins in Christ, there is no such thing as an unplanned pregnancy. God is in the pregnancy with plans beyond imagination and the empowerment to do what people are told they can’t.
Choosing God’s ways in the romantic will grow His love in us and through us. Love should protect: bodies, souls, futures, families. Romance that takes without covenant is not romantic—it’s destructive. Love should leave people more whole, not more hollow. Duet 30:19, John 14:6, John 10:10
⸻
We believe covenant is the goal—not chemistry. Chemistry fades. Covenant transforms. Culture builds relationships on feelings. God builds love on faithfulness. One excites you. The other excites you AND sustains generations. Gen 2:24, Matt 19:6, Mark 10:9, Eph 5:21-33
⸻
We believe the wide road leads to burnout. Endless options. Disposable intimacy. Performative relationships. None of it delivers what it promises. We choose the narrow road—not because it’s easy, but because it leads to life. Matt 7:13, Gal 2:20
⸻
We believe a Romantic Reformation is necessary. Not a rebellion against romantic love—a return to it. A rejection of cheap romance in favor of sacred transformation and unions. A refusal to trade long-term life for short-term feeling. Jer 6:16
⸻
Final Declaration
We are not here to validate every desire. We are here to disciple them. We are not here to make dating easier. We are here to make love holy. If you want affirmation in your own ways, this may feel confrontational. If you want transformation and God’s best fit for you, welcome.